This post is going to be me ranting, sorry
So If anyone knows me they know I am anti social its weird because I have social media and so forth but social media is something that’s controlled you show people what you want, yes I could do that in person but would that not be fake ? …
Anyway I am so fed up of ‘anti-social’ being spoken about as if its a negative trait. There is so many people that do not mean well, only want to be around you so they can find out the latest on your life and not cause they genuinely care, no ! People thrive knowing that others are down just to make themselves feel good or better. I am not saying ALL people but the majority. I see so many fake friendships and interactions its a joke – wait not just friendships family too, I personally feel family are worse i’ll tell you why
okay so as a child we are told family is important which they are to a certain extent. It is implanted in us that we stick by our family no matter what.
However I feel sometimes its the family members that do the worse to you – talk down on you, give you limits on what you can achieve, use you, talk and treat you with disrespect but why do we put up with it ? CAUSE ITS FAMILY
Why is it okay for them to treat us this way but friends and strangers its considered wrong…
I’m personally consistent with how I interact with people so family or friends if I don’t like you as a person i’m not going to be fake to you and act like I do, I won’t call you, ill make no effort to be in your presence and I wont message to see if your doing okay. Now that may seem harsh it doesn’t mean i don’t have love for them I do I just don’t like or want to be around the person that they are… to be honest i’m the type of person that if I don’t like you you will know about it.
I am very content not having friends however I am a friend to many people, if someone called me in need or just needed to talk I will always be there for them, however there ain’t no way i’m about to call you because although you may trust me I don’t trust you call it trust issues I don’t know I just for 1. don’t trust people with my business and 2. honestly I don’t really care about peoples opinions on me or care enough to value their advice i’m not going to waste your time or mine… People that I trust will know because I am a open book with them.
I personally do not have any drama in my life.. no one telling me she said this she said that he done this he done that no…
I’m calming down now lol
The less people in your life the less stress the less bad vibes the less drama to deal with ….